Would you like me to make LIFE super easy to understand?
How you feel while you DON’T have what you want, determines how fast it arrives (or if it will show up at all). This is true for Wealth & EVERYTHING. Never said this so clearly before. Ok, now on to wealth!
First, most of you are just plain fixated on money. And please note that WEALTH has not ever meant just money.
To build this corner of the Perfect Square of your Life, you have to stop trying/efforting/engineering and PUSHING to create money.
Example: Money and love are very similar. Money behaves like a pretty girl. What happens when you fixate on her, chase her, call her too much, think & talk about her all the time? She thinks you are CRAZY and avoids you (and in some places an order of protection or restraining order ensues!).
Many of you don’t know it, but your Money has a Restraining Order out on you!
Money is just proof of how many people you are helping while deeply believing in your own personal value. When you believe in your value, you don’t try too hard or push.
Last week’s training – Build Your Perfect (Square of) Life – #1 Health
Remember this- Wealth is CHOICE and Choices Make FREEDOM.
It’s More a Feeling & Energy than OBJECT
That was really important advice worth repeating. Wealth is choices and choices give freedom. Those are the two HIGHEST values for Alphas. Uncoached Alphas mistake Wealth for money and chase it and find it’s hard to get and hold.
YOU can stop making that mistake now. Money is a BAD GOAL.
My definition of Wealth: Unlimited Time to Make Unlimited Choices
Inherent in this is security (a woman’s highest need) while choosing.
To build your Wealth Corner you want to figure out how to increase your ability to CHOOSE. To get there will require investment (time, comfort, resources, you DIYers might even have to hire a COACH!!) but once you break free of the limited choice place you currently occupy, you’ll start tasting FREEDOM.
On a call with one of my older Alphas (average age of my Alphas 40-60) and she was saying she wants to do humanitarian work and be “well paid.” I stopped her right there. NOT because you cannot be paid well to do noble work. Nope, but because that is a good example of the traps you fall into.
She didn’t so much need to be PAID well as to achieve the feeling of zero concern about money for her needs. THAT is different. When you say “paid well” you limit yourself. It could be someone who gives her a home, a car, covers every expense including all luxury travel plus a stipend. That would be a DREAM for her, but it technically isn’t being “paid well.” Be careful what you demand Alpha! Your words create and are powerful.
Wealth is a barometer to self-worth and focus.
Stop Trying to MAKE Money and Become VALUABLE
Whatever excuse you have for not providing your full value to the world (and the most common is you really don’t believe in YOUR OWN value, I didn’t either) Stop It.
Begin to Build your Wealth.
P.S I’m headed to the Ocean tomorrow! I’m taking my bestie’s 83 year old mom on a 6 hour road trip down to Jekyll Island, Georgia.
Because I…can. And I choose to. Just decided and we are going! Friday’s Video will be from the beach if it’s pretty 🙂
I feel wealthy when I can just decide to go somewhere and go. No elaborate planning or worry. An Alpha (well actually TWO Alphas) with money can solve just about anything that arises.
I’m debating whether I should do something for you for Black Friday too. I’m not a fan of all the crazy energy around it… What do you think I should do?? Hit reply and vote.
Tanya Stewart is “The Alpha Woman Coach” and began coaching strong women as a Divorce lawyer in her own high conflict law firm 20 years ago. She understands how Alpha women are wired and using her Master’s level Metaphysics background and Advanced Clinical Certification in Hypnotherapy, she brings rapid change to people she works with.
She is a speaker, published author and Mensa member whose coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor. She can teach you to separate struggle from success.
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