[Fun] Play God for YOU 😇

Don’t Forget About YOU

It’s been fun to play God and bless a stranger, the earth and an animal invisibly this month.

I purposely put Playing God for Yourself, last. I needed you to “get the hang of it” and get a taste for how wonderful it feels. 

The world looks like it’s on fire right now. And staring at the fire too long has singed your brows, sooted your clothes and weighed you down. It’s time to bring some light to YOU. 

I went looking for a quote and found a lovely one from Wayne Dyer (whose last name I now share!) and was about to use it when this gorgeous beauty raised it’s hand and said “Put me in Coach!”

“In order to love who you are, you cannot hate the experiences that shaped you.” ― Andrea Dykstra

You Are Up! It’s Your Turn

Play God for yourself by releasing your anger over your origins.  “What do you mean Tanya?”

Step 1:

Pick out a piece of your past that was terrible. Really quite awful. One that you probably asked God to stop or change but it happened anyway. 

The job loss. The break up. The health thing. The miscarriage. The bad loan. The foreclosure. The divorce. Whatever it is. 

Step 2:

Now. Play God and write yourself a note in the PRESENT telling you WHY that bad thing happened and how it HELPED YOU (i.e., what it “taught” you). 

Step 3: 

Allow the truth that you would not be who you are NOW, but for the past being exactly as it was, including the hard things. Anything you LOVE would not be there or be the same.  

You cannot have it both ways. You cannot hate your past and love your present. If you hate your past, you are subconsciously hating your present and sabotaging yourself in some way.

PLAY GOD FOR YOURSELF. End the “works in mysterious ways” part and sit down and write yourself the note. You MUST write it out. You need to see this. You need to hang on to this. You need to look at it a day later and READ it again.

I had a miscarriage in my first marriage. I’ve healed that and this would’ve been the note, had I known to do this then: 

Dearest, precious girl. My Tanya. 

Do you forget I love you? I see you always. I knew your pain. Your grief nearly broke my heart too but I knew. I knew what life held for you. I knew that child meant THAT marriage and that was not where I wanted you to be. That was not where YOU wanted you to be. I have called you as my own, to teach my people. I have led you to find love in yourself. Joy in your work. Know that this challenge was part of the path to your present joy. It made you free your heart to really love and serve. I am proud of you and I have given you “children” all over the world to love and mother.    Be not afraid. I go before you always.


Healed or not, that made me cry. Your note need not be fancy or long. Just sit and Play God for yourself. Explain to YOU one reason your past should be forgiven and let those tears flow. My tears are recognition of how COMFORTED I felt reading those words just now, that I know are true.

Play God for YOURSELF

In Joy,

P.S.Want to know when rocket fuel hits your life? When you go from Anger to Allowing to Forgiveness to BLESSING the hardest things that happened to you. 

I had a man try to kill me the summer after my first year of law school. BLESSING! There is NO woman in an abusive relationship I cannot stand up to and demand they do better for themselves because I lived it. Healing these kinds of deep wounds are what has made me a world class coach. You cannot clear a deeper block for a client than you’ve cleared for yourself.  

P.P.S. My next calling is ready! Marriage Rescue for Entrepreneurs. 

I am playing with the idea of teaching a free class for those struggling with their marriages. No catch and no offers. Just a give. World needs a give. If you want to be one of the first Alphas getting some marriage help from me, ask. Men too. So share this with the friend you know needs help. I want a group, so add in and don’t be shy. Hit reply and raise your hand & I’ll help.

Tanya Stewart is “The Alpha Woman Coach” and began coaching strong women as a Divorce lawyer in her own high conflict law firm 20 years ago. She understands how Alpha women are wired and using her Master’s level Metaphysics background and Advanced Clinical Certification in Hypnotherapy, she brings rapid change to people she works with. 

She is a speaker, published author and Mensa member whose coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor. She can teach you to separate struggle from success. 

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