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[Goals] The Final Unknown Law of Empire Building – 4 of 4

Empires Need Benefactors…


Have you enjoyed learning how to build your empire? What to DO and what to avoid so far? The most valuable part of the 4 Unknown Laws of Empire Building is them being all about YOU. They are NOT about getting funding. Not about networking. Not about social media marketing campaigns. 

None of those things will work, if you don’t obey (Law #1-Now!) (Law #2-Narrow!) (Law #3-Great Founders). Let’s close our empire building laws with perhaps the MOST important one of all…


Drowning People Can’t Save OTHER Drowning People


When you read this next part you’re going to get it. The Universe is benevolent. So it’s not going to send you customers and clients, when you aren’t capable of helping them well. The litmus test of how well you can help them… drumroll…is always how well YOU are helping YOU!


Much like a test, you have to pass a certain number of lessons before you can receive your “certification” from the Universe. Once you are “certified” it will happily direct a flow of money, clients and resources to you to safely handle.


Now I will drop a giant piano of truth: Your intentions to help pale against your own personal security. That does not mean that you have to be perfect. It does not mean you have to be “done.” It does mean Law #3 applies – be in integrity, don’t save others while you are on fire.


When you begin to consistently do well for yourself, you can then spread that abundance to others using your business. Eventually, critical mass is achieved. At that moment, momentum kicks in and you begin to attract whatever & whoever you need to grow exponentially, almost like magic.


When your focus is to “save the world”, it is one of fear and lack. You’re afraid of what will happen if you don’t do something. It underscores a belief that the Universe is not friendly and people as victims. 


Now can you see why that is not rewarded??

You Need a Benefactor


Who you become and therefore who you attract is a critical factor in the building of a healthy empire. Empires need benefactors.


Empire benefactors are met not made.

Thus, you must feel attractive, look healthy and appear “helpable” to those who can “make” you in a moment.



Unknown Law #4 of Empire Building:

Save Yourself First


If you are mess, you will attract MESSES.


Messes repel MONEY.


You don’t need lots of money to fix your messes. Start small and fix what you can, from where you are with what you have. 


Do you sleep 8 hours? No? Mess.


Are you overweight? Yes? Mess.


Do you require discipline and give consequences to your children? No? Mess.


Do you rescue others with YOUR last money/energy/time? Yes? Mess. 


Are you impeccable with your word TO YOURSELF? No? Mess.


Your Survival Needs Cannot Wait


These are not habits that Empire builders have. This is not because they NEVER had them. They just reached a day where they dropped the proverbial hammer and said enough is enough. STOP IT. (And yes, they used coaches.)


You have doubtless heard of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs (google it if not). The first layer of needs on his need pyramid are SURVIVAL NEEDS.


You shouldn’t be trying to vacation, align your chakras, open a non-profit or anything ELSE if your survival needs aren’t secured. You can’t even save a marriage before handling this.


Save you first. And now. 


If you don’t know how to do that, hit reply and ask me. If you have survival need issues, can you afford coaching? Nope. But you need it and I’ll give you a direction to head in, a hug and friendly shove to start you on the right path. Hint: That’s my “Do Good” step below.


How to Get a Benefactor (& How to Repel Them)


I love it when love and money overlap because they are very closely related energetically.


  1. Look Good
  2. Be Good
  3. Do Good (Your Best)


So yes, these will work to attract ANY person/organization of quality that is “ahead” of you in development. 


Look Good- Your business and YOU should look good. Yes, that means decent branding and visible health on your part. The business or concern should look pulled together (organized) and not just skin deep!


Be Good- This is that darn integrity bit again! Take the high road. Every time. Do what you say and a little extra. Your character counts. 


Do Good- What you do when no one can see COUNTS. Become a Benefactor to someone BEHIND YOU. Be careful that it is not a handout or a rescue.


If you look, be and do good consistently, you will attract attention from people positioned to make a difference in your life. The law is like to like and you want to make yourself your BEST YOU to leverage the BEST HELP you can attract. Make sense?


How do you repel a benefactor (or a quality mate for that matter?)Need them. Demand them. Fixate on their necessity. Be a victim. Feel entitled to them. Don’t prepare for them before they arrive. That’ll pretty much do it.


Look Good – Be Good – Do Good.


Attract your Benefactor and assure the Universe it can trust you with it’s children.


In Joy,



P.S. As I was writing this, I realized I am building now 🙂 

Critical mass has tipped and I’m entering the momentum where things are happening I DID NOT MAKE HAPPEN & COULD NOT MAKE HAPPEN.

One of those things includes a likely Alpha Mate! (Date look in my Scarlet O’Hara Hat) I want your life to hit this momentum too. Want It? Ask.

P.P.S. I found this article that sums up my views titled “To Save the World, Get Your Shit Togther”. They nailed it. Some of the site’s views are wacky, but this piece rocks.


Tanya Stewart is “The Alpha Woman Coach” and began coaching strong women as a Divorce lawyer in her own high conflict law firm 20 years ago. She understands how Alpha women are wired and using her Master’s level Metaphysics background and Advanced Clinical Certification in Hypnotherapy, she brings rapid change to people she works with. 


She is a speaker, published author and Mensa member whose coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor. She can teach you to separate struggle from success. 


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