Build Your Vision Series: #4 What to Do While You WAIT…& Referral Bonuses!

What to Do While You “Wait” for Your New Vision

Things can be hard. OK…

They can really SUCK before your new vision arrives.  

I am going to tell you exactly what you need to do BEFORE your new vision arrives to ensure it shows up and arrives as quickly as possible! 

Want that? Read on!

Stop Doing THIS

Stop staring at all the things you DON’T like and focusing on them.

Just like when you drive a car, you tend to steer toward whatever you’re looking at.

You have to find a way to take your attention OFF the sucky things that made you want to create a New Vision in the first place!

If what is going sideways is your marriage, you actually have to find a way to STOP focusing on the parts of your marriage that are driving you insane. (Yes. That’s hard). 

Reduce Saying THIS

Start noticing when you are talking about whatever is NOT working.

Start noticing if you are talking about WHY you “need“ the New Vision (that’s just another way to talk about what isn’t working).

Start listening to the stories you tell and agree with, to see if they are MORE in alignment with what you have (that you don’t want) or your New Vision (that you do want). 

And do LESS of all that. 

If you don’t want more of it, stop speaking it!


Do Bunches of THIS

Imagine your New Vision working. 

Imagine the new, better problems you will have, when what you want starts arriving. 🙂

Here’s an example of a “better problem”:

If you are Visioning  more clients for your business, you could imagine the challenge of selecting new, high end software to accommodate your increased caseload. 

And here’s the Easiest & BEST ONE:

Distract yourself with what makes you HAPPY. 

Seriously. That is the best way.

Sometimes you just cannot conjure up any good thoughts from within the stressful situation you feel “stuck“ in.

And you can’t “just stop thinking about it” because you suddenly choose to stop thinking about it. That’s normal too.

Distract yourself with something that makes you feel happy. 

That puts your energy and your outlook and your mood in a place that is most likely to attract and receive the good that you’re asking for. 

Stressful marriage that gets better and then worse and then better and then worse? Distract yourself. 

Or finally fix it with me in the Art of Self Rescue. ♥️

In Joy,

P.S. Wayne Dyer (and I think the Dalai Lama) said it best… “There is no WAY to happiness, happiness IS the way.”

You have to actually GET happy in order for your New Vision to arrive. Your New Vision will not arrive in order to MAKE you happy.  

P.P.S. They don’t celebrate Thanksgiving here in Australia, so I’m not doing a formal Black Friday Sale. But… 

My standing offer is I pay 10% for your referrals as a Thank You. 

My No Frills Black Friday Offer is I’ll double that.

20% paid in cash or coaching for referrals received prior to December 2nd that hire us (even if they hire later). 

Fair & Awesome or what?? :-)Happy Thanksgiving US!

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 22-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of ‘The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce’, Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach. 

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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