Build Your Vision Series: #1 Why We Need a New Vision (Married or NOT!)

You Need A New Vision

This is gold in your hands. Get ready! Read it ALL. 

I’m going to tell you WHY you need a New Vision, WHAT it will give you and WHY this applies to marriage, money, mission, men…umm…everything?!

Look For A New Vision

It doesn’t matter what you are up to.  You need a New Vision, a BETTER Vision, if you want whatever it is to work easier or get done faster. 

Heard this one? “Without a vision, the people perish.”  TRUE! 

Let me tell you WHAT a Vision gives you so you’ll be sold on WHY you want one. A Strong Vision:





Things go wrong. 2020.  Just pick a left turn you DIDN’T see coming! See my point?  Things go sideways sometimes.

Visions PULL you toward your goal. They GIVE you motivation and reason to continue forward despite the obstacles tossed onto your pathway.

We all need something pulling us to work against our tendency to slow down, stop and get stuck.   A Vision for your marriage operates in the same way. 

It’s the pull to let go of “being right” when it makes soo much more sense to go for being “happy” in the moment. 

Ever seen those reality shows featuring tow truck drivers rescuing cars and big trucks?  Know how they usually do that?  They PULL, not push.  You want something bigger than you PULLING you forward.


Visions also pull another way. They PULL IN resources you need.

That is called ATTRACTION.

When you build a clear, strong vision, whatever you need to make it happen is more attracted to you. 

That may be a partner if you are single, venture capital if you are an entrepreneur or your husband having a receptive, listening moment when you desperately need to speak to him. 

One practical reason Visions Attract is because you become clearer on what resources you NEED to move the ball forward.  That clarity makes it way easier for your mind to spot it, your mouth to request it and others to see exactly how they can help you. 

Spiritual Reason? Create a Vision that expands love, life or good in some way and the Universe is on your side! It WANTS you to have what you need.  

I used to hear from religious folks that God hates divorce. He. Does. NOT. (God doesn’t hate).

God LOVES healthy marriages. Healthy relationships. Healthy businesses serving needs.  If your Vision is to build something healthy and helpful and beautiful, you will be supplied. 


Ahh but life is distracting. So are bills, fights, children, health issues, politics and about a dozen other things that “need” your attention. 

You need a New Vision because Visions FOCUS YOU.  When the Vision is clear, it is very easy to see which things are “distractions” and which are necessary. 

Maybe your Vision is to publish your book (finally) and help women around the world.  If you need to hire an editor to get your book published, the annual “bail your sister out loan” to secure her family’s Christmas is a DISTRACTION. 

–>>>Visions make it very easy to see where we are gaining ground and where we are going sideways or sliding back. 

If your marriage is good, you still need a New Vision. 

If your marriage is struggling, you Need a New Vision.

If your marriage feels like roommates, you REALLY need a New Vision. 

That Vision should PULL you closer to happiness. 

That Vision should ATTRACT the help you need to make changes. 

That Vision should FOCUS you to make love a priority now, not later.

Ask me and I’ll help you create a New Vision. 

It must be made in your heart & mind before it can be 

seen in your kitchen, bedroom or bank account.  

In Joy,

P.S. Getting a New Vision can be fun! What do you REALLY want? Will you let yourself imagine it?  Next week we’ll talk about How to Build that New Vision 🙂 

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 22-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of ‘The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce’, Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach. 

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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