[Action] The Hard Work of Simplicity #4: You Don’t Need A Map! ūüėú


The Hard Work of Simplicity #4

You KNOW you have a¬†Mission.¬†A Purpose. A¬† Calling…but what IS it?? Or worse, you have some idea of what it is and now…you want a map.¬†¬†A blueprint.¬†¬†A plan.¬†¬†¬†A template.

You’d love a¬†step-by-step schematic¬†with light up sections for anything that could be uncomfortable or dangerous.¬†

Those don’t exist and you SOO want one. Stop it.

(My favorite two coaching words!)

Simplify Your Mission ->Just Begin.

The Universe Will Course Correct You.

Just Begin

Let me repeat that. Even if you turn in what is clearly the wrong direction, if you pay attention, the Universe will nudge you onto your true course.

So often, we have not completed our lessons and obtained the tools from the curriculum of our life to even HANDLE our mission! Yep. You probably aren’t qualified for it yet.

I kept thinking I was ready and I wasn’t fully there yet.  I had more layers to peel away.  I had more tools to acquire.  I had more truths to reveal. 

When you just get into motion, you’ll be directed to your next Destination. That next Destination may not be (probably won’t be!) your final “mission“.

But it WILL be, the location of your NEXT lesson, tool or truth that you need to do your purpose without struggle. 

Just begin.¬† Seriously.¬†Starting anywhere will give you feedback¬†that you can use to start at a “better” spot.¬†

Read This Article For More Help: 

Never Start At The Beginning

In Joy,

P.S.¬†I have¬†lost just over 21 lbs (about 10 kgs) in the last 3 months.¬†How did I do that? I just began.¬† When I started was not the “best” starting date. I started on June 19th. In my family we have around 12 birthdays in July, including mine, my husband’s, my mother-in-laws and twins! Those alone were 5 strong reasons to “wait” til August.¬†¬†But something else would’ve come up then…I knew it. It was time and I just…began.¬†

If I’d NEVER begun I’d not be¬†21.4 lbs down and 1.5 lbs to go to my “I’m a Badass Again” Goal weight.¬†¬†My Mission with ASR (Art of Self Rescue) just began¬†early this year.¬†Nothing in place. Nothing “perfect” and even who and how I’d serve has evolved since I’ve been in¬†MOTION.¬†

If I’d never started ASR, I’d NOT¬†be in such a place of deepening clarity about what I do and who my soul was born to serve (High Achieving Women who keep pretending everything is OK in their marriage when it’s NOT. Alphas who are¬†afraid they can’t fix it and¬†ever¬†be loved).¬† Your marriage is¬†struggling.¬†ūüíĒ And yes, that’s totally been me.


Just begin.  Get my help. Drop the sugar. Do what must be done. 


After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a¬†22-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm,¬†Author of ‘The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce’, Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.¬†

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor. 

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

Find Even More on the Resources page of the website: www.FearlessFocusCoaching.com/Resources


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