Sexy Businesses Start With YOU
I knew you’d open this. Sex doesn’t just sell to men you know! We just “consume” our sex differently. Indulge this month and learn how to marry sex and work ethically.
What is “Sexy” in Business?
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To get esoteric first, the energy of sex comes from the Root Chakra, colored red (of course). It is located at the base of your spine near where all our earthy activities, coming and going (if you’ll pardon the puns), are located.
Sexual power is tangled up with money, as this is where SECURITY is located. And also why security is what women seek in men and what we need to have good sex.
Here is the single sentence definition you are assigned to play with to get sexy in your business:
Sexy: Playful (or Quiet) Confidence, Knowing You Are Desired
Sexy@Work: Playful (or Quiet) Confidence, Knowing Your Services Are Desired
Sexy is about inner confidence. That is why you do NOT need to be beautiful to be sexy. Being sexy is powerful because it is 100% in your control. Beautiful is often an onlooker’s perspective.
Have you seen beautiful women that look slutty, not sexy? Their NEEDINESS and willingness to barter to fill that need is showing.
Have you seen beautiful women that don’t like themselves? They don’t glow. They aren’t nearly as attractive as they technically are.
In business, everyone is looking at you objectively (the beauty contest) and you may not win that one. But you can get your product AND your beliefs to a level where you KNOW your work is desired.
That “je ne sais quoi” closes sales, no matter what you are selling. 💖
You can ask me to help make your product (or you) sexy so it sells.
P.S. Playful sexy – Marilyn Monroe. Quiet sexy – Lauren Bacall. The best way to amp this up is to go somewhere new and play “pretend.” Pretend you are already outrageously sexy and watch how people respond to you – grocery store is perfect for this! I used to do this at Costco all the time. (Shame on you married men!)
Sexy translates. If you can do it at the store, you can do it in your business. Everybody helps the sexy. It’s a unwritten law.
In the photo above I wasn’t trying for sexy. But I was ROCKING my quiet confidence that I was desired as a wife and mom. 🙂 How did that translate? Dead Sexy.
Tanya Stewart is “The Alpha Woman Coach” and began coaching strong women as a Divorce lawyer in her own high conflict law firm 20 years ago. She understands how Alpha women are wired and using her Master’s level Metaphysics background and Advanced Clinical Certification in Hypnotherapy, she brings rapid change to people she works with.
She is a speaker, published author and Mensa member whose coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor. She can teach you to separate struggle from success.
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